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04-12-12
E-Update: Teachability

Dear Friends and Members of St. Andrew's:

Pastor John Hogenson

Years ago I accepted a position as a nursing home chaplain. I was very excited to begin this ministry. One of the reasons I was excited is that I would have the opportunity to supervise an intern from the seminary, something I had never done before. When I interviewed prospective interns for the first time there were two that really stood out, but I could not decide which one would be the best fit. 

I called a mentor to seek advice. He said, "John, whichever one you select, make sure that they are teachable." This is a rule that I have followed ever since. When we interview prospective staff members here at St. Andrew's, among other things I always try to discern if they are teachable and have a healthy sense of humility. If they are not teachable and if they are lacking in humility, they and everyone else they minister to and with are in for pain.

To be teachable essentially means that you desire to learn and are open to new ideas. To learn and to be open to new ideas means that listening is essential. Robert Greenleaf, who is credited as being the "The father of servant leadership" (the real father of servant leadership was Jesus), once said, "Listening is a profound experience. It means you are open to new ideas." Wayne Dwyer said, "Strive to be interested rather than interesting."   

As a pastor I have seen conflicts happen in families, churches, denominations, political parties, you name it, because people have failed to listen to one another and are much more interested in being understood than understanding. I have seen hundreds of people purport to really want to "listen" but are not hearing a thing the other person is saying and are instead focusing on how they can prove to the person they are talking to how wrong the other person is and how right they are. People on all sides of the political and theological spectrums are so sure of their own rightness that they make it impossible to gracefully engage with someone else.

Jesus knew that we humans are like this. I think this is why Jesus said again and again, "Let anyone with ears to hear, listen." This week and again next week we will (hopefully) hear these words of Jesus. Notice that Jesus did not say, "Let everyone with ears;" but rather he said, "Let everyone with ears to hear, listen."   

When we don't truly listen to others with a spirit of seeking understanding, we experience brokenness. I long ago observed that the degree to which one has broken relationships in their life is the degree to which they feel distanced from God. Most importantly Jesus is telling us that when we do not hear him, we are not hearing words that bring life and salvation and are robbing ourselves of what is most important in life.

May each of us who "has ears to hear, listen." 

 

John Hogenson 

Lead Pastor

Comments

Sunday, May 20, 2012 at 3:09:32 AM by YongHyun
incluso a sus apf3stoles que fueron teitsgos de su bondad, la misericordia, el amor infinito y hechos milagrosos le fallf3, bfcf3mo podemos esperar a ser mejor? Esta cancif3n es acerca de como dice claramente que e9l, su temor de que su brillante es demasiado pequef1a para contener toda su oscuridad. Ok? Lo que una interpretacif3n superficial que ha hecho. Usted hace una injusticia para el autor de esta cancif3n increedble. Y la mayoreda de sus canciones tienen connotaciones espirituales. Conseguir una pista, por favor.
Sunday, May 20, 2012 at 1:35:54 PM by Tyanne
Your article perfetlcy shows what I needed to know, thanks!
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